a) I am single and dating in a small city. A single google search of my name would likely turn up this blog. In all likelihood noone is going to want to date a girl who could potentially spill all their dirty little secrets on her blog.
b) Out of respect and privacy for those I have dated I have not included my own name or theirs. All of the stories I tell are true but I have tried to change or leave out details that would identify anyone.
c) It's not really the kind of thing you want your boss reading about you. My mom doesn't really need to know about my leg getting humped either...
I am not ashamed of my dates, the things I have done on them or anything I have written about. I just want to be asked out again without having my potential
P.S.-As some of you may know I also have another blog where I write quite publicly using my real name, about the rather mundane details of my day to day life.